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BEWARE THOSE WHO CRY WOLF
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Everyday thousands of men, women and children are physically, mentally and emotionally abused. 
 
HOWEVER, everyday there are men and women who are blamed of abuse that they did not do...WHY, because the system allows it.
 
The laws that were created to protect the victim can actually be used against the victim.
 
Do you know that the restraining order/order of protection that everyone tells a woman who is a victim of DV to get, can be used against her?   Bet you thought this was a piece of paper, a court order that was helping her...many women refuse to get a restraining order for many reasons...but the biggest one is that IT CAN BE USED AGAINST HER.
 
All the abuser has to say once a restraining order is issued, is that the woman has abused him, been with him, or has violated the restraining order.  Because the wording on the restraing order is worded in a way that both parties can violate it. 
 
What happens then is the victim who got the restraining order, is now being accused by the abuser...and the woman who thought was getting a restraining order to help her, will now be accused and can be arrested, because her abuser uses that court order against her.
 
I have talked to many women that has happened to.
 
This is a CRIME...
 
We have also, given our children the power to exploit and punish their parents for being good parents.   We have teachers, counselors and law enforcement people who tell children they cannot be hit, spanked, yelled at or told what to do.
 
Yet, when children are allow to run free, and get into trouble, the parents take the blame for these actions, and are critized for not taking care of their children.
 
We have a big problem in this country of children who use this power to get what they want...who run away, and then yell abuse to the reason why they ran away...when in 99% of the cases it was a child who was abusing the parent/s, and proving to the parents they could do as they please...and not get into trouble.
 
THESE CHILDREN ARE ABUSING THE SYSTEM AND THEIR PARENTS AND FAMILIES WITH THESE ALLEGATIONS.
 
And to make matters worse, the law enforcement office does not punish these kids, and in most cases do not look for these kids instead here is a quote from a Police Officer to me when I asked why isn't the child on an Amber Alert or being televised on TV.  "DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY RUNAWAYS WE HAVE EVERYDAY?"
 
So in otherwords it is not important that they ran away, or finding them, as much as once found blaming the parent for them running away.
 
I state here if runaways were televised immediately, and continuely until they were found, less kids would run-away, because their friends wouldn't be able to tell them, "you can run away, you won't get into trouble, I did it, and no one even looked for me I was gone for weeks.  And guess what, all you have to do is if you get caught tell them your parents abused you, and you never have to go home. Plus your parents get into alot of trouble"
 
 
The child who ran away is the one who did wrong....NOT NECESSARILY THE PARENT...and I know there are thousands of parents out there who will agree and who have been through this.
 
If you are a parent of a run-away who yelled abuse afterwards, and you were innocent of this, but suffered at the hands of the courts, police, or agency please send us an email to angelsonearth@myway.com and tell us your story, maybe we can get this injustice against parents ended.
 
ANYONE WHO CRYS WOLF AND CLAIMS ABUSE WHEN IT IS NOT TRUE IS GUILTY OF MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL CRUELTY TO THE PARENT/S, SIBLINGS, GRANDPARENTS, HUSBAND OR WIFE, INFACT IT EFFECTS EVERYONE FROM WITHIN THE FAMILY AND EXTENDED FAMILIES.
 
And to all you women and men, you scream abuse on a spouse who has not committed this crime: SHAME ON YOU!